Hakim al-Umma Hadhrat Mawlana Ashraf ‘Ali Thanawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said, “Condone even an explicit mistake of your wife.

Being patient on her wrongdoing will elevate your ranks (in Hereafter) and create moral endurance (tahammul) in your character.

This moral endurance is very beneficial in one’s deen and rewarding (in Hereafter).”

Tuhfa e zojain, page 150.